Not Crazy About Bachelor Party Idea

I don`t think having the "typical" stripper bachelor or bachelorette party is the best way to start off a marriage. Infact, it may turn out to be one of the best ways to end a marriage.
Tell your fiance your concerns, if he cares about you he won`t have the promiscuous bachelor party. If he doesn`t care that you`re upset about the party, then maybe you should rethink some things.

Think about doing a Jack n Jill party or a couples party instead of seperate parties.

Mel

I would suggest that if his friends (and he) are adament that he have strippers...haev them actually go to a strip club (not rent a girl to come to someones home). The bouncers at the club are there to make sure that NOTHING really bad happens. When the girl is at a home, she can pretty much do whatever she wants and that`s when things get bad. My FH and I had our parties last weekend. We made sure that we had them on the same night because I didn`t want to be at home "wondering" what he was doing, and he felt the same way.

I don`t think you will like this response, but honestly, it probably doesn`t matter how you feel or what you say to your fiance - he doesn`t really have control over the outcome of the bachelor party. If your fiance`s friends want a bachelor party, there will be one but I would think that they would respect your feelings and not go completely overboard, but unfortunately you have no control over that. The bachelor party is for your fiance, however I personally think it is a way for the other guys to get out and party it up without any women around. Your fiance would not do anything to damage your relationship and that of your child, he obviously loves you very much and thinks you are the most beautiful person around or he wouldn`t be marrying you. If you trust your fiance you have nothing to worry about.