2nd Marriage

I am getting married for the second time. The first time I got married it was in a court house so it didn`t cost much, but I was 18 and foolish, and of course, at the time, I knew what I was doing. That marriage turned out to be a nightmare. Now that I am 22, I am getting married again, to my baby`s father. We have been together almost 3 years, and my family loves him. I don`t expect for my parents to pay for anything because I have been married before, but I need to know if they are going to or not. They are the type who would pay, but with it being my second marriage, I don`t know how to bring it up to them without sounding like I expect them to pay for it. HELP!!