Mother-In-Law?

That`s tough! I met my husband in College, so that was easy for us. I met his Mom when she came to visit for parent weekend, and he met my parents when I brought him home for Thanksgiving weekend. That is quite the distance so I can see the problem.You need to meet her before the wedding...how uncomfortable would that be if you never met her until your wedding day! What about planning a weekend somewhere in between....split the distance.
Where is your wedding going to be? Your showers?
I`m sure that she wants to meet you too! So if nothing else can be worked out, don`t you think that she will come for one of your showers.....I bet she will! Good Luck!

The wedding is going to be either here in california,or in Tennessee,since we both have family there. It is in the Kinngdom Hall of Jehovah`s Witnesses.I`m not sure about the wedding shower,though.I know ,my mom would be very upset if she didn`t get to meet him before the wedding,and I am sure his mother feels the same. Maybe I can use her in the wedding so she`ll be here for the rehearsel the week before?Anyways,thanks for the suggestion. I`ll keep it in mind.