Kids

She`s going to include her baby no matter what all this junk says. That is her and her finace`s child, her blood. So for once answer hte question htat has been asked and drop it. It s a messageboard not a chat room and surely not a complaint or an opinion poll. So mind yourown business and go get some Linda maybe youwill feel better then and lay off. HAG.

Distraught, your post made no sense at all.

Lindsey-
My reply did make sense if you read all the threads to this one conversation. Linda is a hag who disrespects all people opinions and thinks shes god. So I will leave it at that. She said that having a child out of wedlock is an abomination dah dah dah. So anyway but yea it did make sense. Read the other threads.

"Linda maybe youwill feel better then and lay off. HAG"

"Linda is a hag who disrespects all people opinions and thinks shes god. So I will leave it at that. She said that having a child out of wedlock is an abomination"

What in the world are you talking about? I just saw this thread for the first time. I`ve never said any such thing. So YOU lay off.

Actually if you read the post "kids" that has 21 responses ( you can see the related topics at the bottom of the page) Linda said the five month old child was a bastard and should be left at home.
As for the child in the wedding, my friend has a 6 month old when she got married and what she did was buy a white wagon. Then have it decorated with flowers to match your wedding, and have an older flowergirl or just a little boy in a tux pull the wagon down the aisle. It was cute, but it depends on what you want to do. Hope this helps.

Linda also called my children bastards and I am livid. NOBODY has the right to call my children anything. So yes Linda does need to lay off of the name calling. She can post a statement without being rude
I think including your child(ren) in your wedding is a wonderful thing, they are a part of your family and therefore should be part of your celebration no matter how old they are.
You could have your FH holding the baby while you walk down the aisle and then hand him/her to a bridesmaid when you get there.
I am sure you will find a wonderful way to include your child. After your wedding, please let us know how it went

I don`t understand why you guys are mad at her for stating her opinion. Linda never said she was god, she merely stated what was said in most major religions. Just because YOU did something wrong, doesnt make it right all of a sudden. "there will come a time when those who stand up for what is right will be treated as the sin doer". Can`t remember were i read this, but if God wanted us to have kids out of wedlock, why did he create marriage. All you ladies think that your getting a good deal out of sleeping with men before marriage, but yet so many women are so messed up emotionally in this country.

I had a friend who lived with her boyfriend and did everything for him, cooking, cleaning, and yes sleeping with him. The day she asked him when they will get married he yelled at her and said the next time she mentions marriage he`s leaving....WHAT THE HELL...well, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.........

NEWSFLASH: Not everyone is Christian or any religion for that matter. Just because you believe something doesn`t mean other people have to follow or listen. Respect other people`s lives and decisions, and in turn, they will respect you.
PS- Believe it or not... Some guys love the cow so it`s not a matter of "free milk."

I have been with my FH for almost 9 years, we have 2 kids together and it is I, yes ME, that keeps putting off getting married. I want a big traditional wedding and he wants the courthouse. I refuse to get married in the courthouse, I will wait until we have the money to have the wedding I want, which is still only 8,000.
We are NOT getting married in a church because we do not attend regularly but we do have a friend that is a youth pastor that can perform wedding ceremonies and he is going to do it without bringing in a lot of religion.
Just because people do alot of things I do not believe in doesn`t mean I have the right to tell them how they should live their life.
I am glad I live in a country that allows me to follow or not to follow any belief I believe in but yet my fellow "neighbors" feel they have the right to tell me which belief to follow.
If and when I go to hell I guess that is my problem not Linda`s or anybody elses. And sorry I have seen the attitude of a lot of "Christian" people and if that is what beign a Christian is all about, no thanks. I can have my babies out of wedlock and still treat people with better respect. And be a good person.
Most, NOT all, Christians I know are hypocritical and judgmental. I can quote a few scriptures that most people fail to abide by but will not get in to it. I am sure if you sit and think about it and read some of the post, they will all come rushing through your head!

Amen Brandy ;-)

I am a Christian and a single mother (never married). My 13 year old son has been a blessing to both his father and I and will be apart of my wedding day. Being a Christian
Does not make me exempt from making mistakes or sin although I know many Christians act as though they are different because they attend church or believe in GOD but the truth is we are the same as everyone else SAVED BY HIS GRACE. These post as to whether or not they have “bastard” children or walking down the aisle pregnant or not does not make them a better person than anyone that has children. These people seem to need to put others down to build themselves up and that is what sets us apart from them.