Postpone Wedding??
My wedding is to be on July 3rd, 2004 and I think I might want to postpone it. I just don`t feel right at this time about tying the knot. I do want to marry my fiance..don`t get me wrong. Is this cold feet or is it my instincts...even though I am not really sure what my instincts are telling me? Thanks!!
Posted by Tabby; updated 04/21/04
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Well it just sounds like cold feet, but I dont know you and your fiance`s realtionship either. If there is alot of fighting or bickering or you just dont feel stable enough it is your instincts. But if you are just stressed out overly tired or anything elsse having to do with life in general and the wedding its only cold feet. If your stressed RELAX. A wedding is only a show for the women who attend. It s all about how good and big and fancy of a sho you can put on. So really it is no big deal. Dont freak out RELAX and let it flow. Life was made for things not to be perfect. Iearned with my own wedding. Dont e a ball of stress on your big special day because then you dont remember what vows you said or didnt say or even how you felt walking down the aisle ith all eyes on you. RELAX and just step back and look at ht big picture if you feel pressured in anyway the postpose. If he loves you he wil understand. Sit down and have a heat to heart with him.
Posted by Charlotte; updated 04/22/04
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If your heart is telling you to wait...WAIT...I wished I had listed to my gut instinct. I got married 8/10/02 and I just filed my divorce papers yesterday. That`s not to say that you`ll end up in divorce court but you should ALWAYS listen to heart...it won`t steer you wrong. Postpone and see what happens. The heart won`t lie - there`s a reason you`re feeling that and soon enough it will be apparent why.
Good luck!!
Krissy
Posted by Krissy; updated 04/22/04
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I think its a good idea to postpone a wedding, because wedding planning is STRESSFUL and if you can buy yourself some extra time, then more power to you!!!
Posted by Kayla; updated 04/22/04
