WHO TO INVITE

Its not bad etiquette.

Not at all.
We all know about budget restrictions and having to limit the number of people we invite. The people you invite to your wedding should be the people that are going to stand by you and support you in your marriage from this day forward, not up to this point.

As always the more the marrier, but if you don`t have room in your place or your budget, an announcement will be just fine. Hopefully they will understand.
Good Luck!!

I know alot of people are agianst this, but try making an `A` list and a `B` list. Put her on your `B` list. Try to send invitations out early so that you would have time to invite people on ur `B` list if people on the `A` list rsvp that they are not coming.