Stress... HELP!!!

My wedding is in September.. We have the colors picked out as being Navy Blue and Silver.. My only problem is picking out the theme.. We was thinking fall theme... IM unsure what to do ... Help!!!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Posted by Krys; updated 04/08/04

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You don`t really need a theme....
Posted by Kay; updated 04/08/04

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Its not a requirement that you have a theme, however, it would make the wedding more interesting for everyone. Your theme does not necessarily have anything to do with autumn.
Posted by Missy; updated 04/08/04

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With colors of Navy and Silver, it kind of remonds me of a nautical look. Sea Shells, Anchors and things like that are great accents for a theme of that nature. There are some really pretty gel candles that can be used as favors. You can play it up in the cake with white chocolate sea shells. Look at things on-line. Your really don`t need a theme though. If there is nothing you have your heart set on as a theme, eliminate the stess and just go with what makes you happy. YOU ARE THE THEME!! Everything else is just fluff!! You are going to be great!!
Posted by saramarie_usa; updated 04/09/04

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My colors are cranberry/ silver any ideas for theme
Posted by marisa; updated 04/09/04

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I think a nautical theme would be great!!
Posted by Missy; updated 04/09/04

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Thanks gals.. The nautical theme sounds really good.. Thanks again..
Posted by krys; updated 04/09/04

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Hey Marissa!!
When is your wedding? I love those colors.
If it is in the fall you could really play up the autumn colors in your flowers. There are some amazing orange and yellow flowers. If it is in the winter you could really play up the holiday. You could use ivy and white roses. You could have mistle toe in places, especially over the dance floor. It would make for a romantic evening for everyone involved.
Good luck, keep us posted!!
Posted by saramarie_usa; updated 04/09/04

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Hi sara marie, my wedding is in sept and its exciting but stressful at times, when is your. So what is your mother in law doing to annoy you?? do you honestly think that its the matron of honor role to be the mc, announcer?? and is it possible that my mother in law arranged her to speak without telling me becuase of the gift for me that she does not want to by, i feel hurt about that.
Posted by marisa; updated 04/09/04

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I understand your hurt. Remember she is paying for a part of the shower. And if this is as big of a deal as you say it is, she is probably coming out of pocket a decent amount of money. Just because it doesn`t come wrapped up in a bow, does not mean it is not a gift.

About her arranging for your sister in law to MC...anything is possible, but I don`t think her actions stem from that (or at least I hope not) . I think she wants to be sure that her side of the family is is in the lime light. All this stuff is about you and I think she is feeling left out. If that is the case, that is sad. She should be happy that her son has found someone that he loves and is going to spend the rest of his life with. Unfortunately we can not all be as graceful as we :)!!

Yes, I think it is very appropriate thet your MOH MC the event. I actually think it is kind of her duty. This will give people a chance to see just why you chose her to play the most special role a gal can play at your wedding. If someone else would like to say grace, fabulous.

OH My mom in law to be....She is very excited for Oct. Wedding. I would love to e-mail you the details. I think you will have some good insight for me.

What is your e-mail address? We will have to chat!!
Posted by saramarie_usa; updated 04/09/04

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Saramarie what is your email address??
Posted by marisa; updated 04/09/04