Help!! The Only Gifts That We Need Is Cash

I, too, am in a similar situation. I think one tactic may be to specify what you need the money for. If it`s a house downpayment, remodel or something like that, I think many guests would respond favorably. If you`re only going to have 30 guests, they probably know you well and would be glad to help out. This is especially true of the traditional big gift givers -- parents, in-laws and so on.

Here is a suggestion:

"Wishing Well to be provided at reception."

Plain and not demanding. It gives a little hint. Make it into a little 2"x2" card like they do for department store registrys.

PS~~~you`ll probably see Sarah or Chris or Lynn explode on this suggestion.