Rude And Judgemental

Am I the only one that has noticed how rude and judgemnetal people are on here? You ask a simple question or reply to a post and all of a sudden it seems there is at least one person who thinks you are pure evil! So what if somebody makes a mistake or does things that aren`t what you believe in. Are you living their life, have you ever been in their shoes? People need to stop and think about what they are saying before saying it. I thought this board was about getting and giving ideas and advice on weddings, not telling us we are going to rot in hell over choices that we make. If we wanted to be preached at we would go to church. I love the ones where you reply to a post and suddenly everyone is giving you advice that has nothing to do with the post. If people can`t be nice and have more positive things to say to people than maybe they shouldn`t be on here! With all of the threads I have read on here or replied to I have never once said anything negative to anybody, rather I thought they were wrong or not, it is not my call to judge people as it is not yours either! Let`s please make this board a little more pleasant to everybody and not be so quick to judge!