Quince/Diesiseis Colors

I need major help with my sweet 16 colors ok my Mom says that because my birthday is in June and since june has like 3 diff. Birthstone I should go with one of the birthstone colors. She also said she likes Alexandrite which is a lavender-pink color. Now my other birthstones are pearl (white), and Moonstone (I think is multi-colored) What colors should I use and what colors should be for me and my damas?? Please Help me. Thanks in advance!