2 Maids Of Honors???
Hey,
My sis is getting married in December and she really wants me to be her MOH, because we are so close, of course. The thing is, between us, there is our other sister, who will be devestated if I am chosen to be the MOH over her and claims she should be the MOH because she`s "next in line". The bride to be, being a people`s pleaser, came to a suggestion that both of us will be the MOH. But I don`t want to share that same title with someone that shouldn`t be her MOH. Its like the title lost its status. The bride to be feels the same way. Any advise? What should she do? How should she decide who will be the MOH?
THANKS!
Posted by Ayana; updated 03/25/04
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I don`t see anything wrong with it.
Posted by Missy; updated 03/25/04
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My best friend and I have been friends for around 17 yrs or so and when her sister found out she asked me to be her MOH she hit the rough, so to please her sister she had us both as MOH (until the wedding was called off) but it was a little different cause her sister never thought that because she was married she would have been a matron of honor and I am maid of honor! Her sister is stupid. But the point, my best friend and I know who really deserved that title, and it wasn`t her sister so we just blew it off. If you and your sister know the truth it doesn`t really matter, youknow where you stand with her. Yes, 2 MOH are acceptable!
Posted by Brandy; updated 03/25/04
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I don`t think there is anything wrong with having two MOH`s. I also must say I do think it`s wrong to ask a person to be your MOH because you feel obligated, I know you don`t want to upset anybody but it should be up to the bride to choose who she wants and up to the rest of the group to live with it and not complain.
Posted by Liza; updated 03/26/04
