Help!! I Hate My Fiancee`s Mother!!!

Boy oh boy.............where do I begin?

Should I start in the middle or end. What I will do is type and let it come out as it may. My ex-fiancee and I have a house and a child............yes I know we did things backwards. This to me doesn`t seem to be a factor because problems can arise whether you marry or not. Maybe if I would have married him 1st I would have gotten a better idea of what I was getting into but then I might be talking divorce..........but instead people we have a beautiful little boy that we love very much and can raise together without being married.

Now let me also say this. We are still together, I just called off the wedding. I also need to put this out there, my ex-fiancee is an o­nly child and my son is an o­nly grandchild for his mother............got it, ok, lets proceed.

The women is batty, nutty and twisted.

She thinks that everywhere we are she is supposed to be. Last year, we pull up to the restaurant for Valentines day, getting out the car, we hear a horn, it`s her. I immediaetly get upset cause at this point I`m already fed up with her. We proceed to sit down at our table; she walks in and says " I know you`ll want to be alone but I`m hungry". I will never for as long as I live forget this statment. I`m so pissed off. Now that is o­nly the grunt of it. I`m not going to make each incident a story cause I could go o­n forever; I`m going to give you a list of the things she done to haunt me. She wanted to go with us to the closing of our house, she wanted to go with me to all my Dr. Appts, she wants to go with him o­n all his interviews, she tells me how to raise my son, how to clean my house, washes our clothes, folds our clothes, cleans my bedroom, tells me how to deal with her son, she TRIED to take over my baby shower ( my mother is even more outspoken then I am), she goes behind my back to plan holidays with him when I already told her that we were doing something else, she runs his bath water, she sold her house to move next door to us, she showed up at the hospital when he asked me to marry him when she knew that should be a private time, she spent the night with us o­n New Years (before the baby was here) and when my oldest son was sent away cause we wanted to be alone, this is what she said after we left church "You`ll want me to stay or you`ll want me to go". I started laughing, he said "that is up to you ma", translated to me that means "we`d really like to be alone but don`t want to hurt your feeling. This nut case proceeded to go get her over night clothes out her bag. She had already planned to stay no matter what we said. She is in the process of closing o­n the house that she brought 4 houses away from us (mind you, I don`t even think she likes the house, she just wants to be under us) so she is staying in my house. Now what I`m going to say some of you may not understand, you may see it as being helpful, I don`t. When I come home from work, she is cooking my dinner, washing my clothes, cleaning my house, cleaning my room, answering my phone (cell phone included if I leave Iy laying around). While I was pregnant she kept asking to watch the baby while I went to work, I objected to this cause I knew where it would lead, she convinced my fiancee that they would throw him in the garbage, drop him and molest him and no o­ne would love him the way she would. I finally gave in, cause it would save us $209.00 a week. So, I went back to work, this nut case thought she was going to come get my son Sunday night, take him home with her and bring him back o­n Friday night!!!!!!!!. I told her and him "over my dead body". She drove everyday for 1hr and 35 min to my house to watch my son while I was at work for 6 weeks until she got tired of the drive. During this time she met all my neighbors and invited every utility personal to eat dinner at my house!!!!!

Here is the kicker, I have expressed all my concerns to my ex-fiancee and he does not see a problem with any of this......................hence the word EX!!!

Recently I have had the opportunity to express to her exactly how I feel. I have been throwing suttle hints in the past, except for the moving next to us part. I was very blunt about that, she knew from the very beginning I was not happy about it cause she would be in our business more then she already is. It didn`t matter how I felt cause her beloved son doesn`t have a problem with it and even if he does he doesn`t have the balls to say so. He willjust muble things under his breath to me and then a week later swear he didn`t say it.

I`d love to hear some opinions o­n this situation.

Even though they both know how I feel about it and why, neither o­ne of them see a problem with it so all in all they probably feel like I`m the o­ne with the problem. She will stop but so much cause he is happy with it.

When I got pregnant her family and friends told me not to let her ruin my life...........I didn`t even know these people at the time.