The Yes/No Game.... Lets Unstress

Yes I did, Dresses, looking for and trying on dresses for myself and the bridal party. Fun and relaxing for me.

Have you had a problem with your brial party planning your bachelorette party (jack n jill)??

Mel

Yes,

It is picking out my Bouquet. I am basing my girls dresses off of the flowers I will be holding so that is my favorite moment....And I think I found the bouquet :)

Party planning has scared me I havent started it yet

Now Here is a question for you ladies:
Is it wrong to not have a wedding in a church?

I would Like mine outside

No, i don`t think its wrong not to having your wedding in a church. I am also having my wedding outside......It is going to be in a park with a gazebo. I think its personal preference.

Ok ladies question

Has your FH helped with planning your wedding?
Mine no,he just says you have it whatever way you want.

Mel

Yes, sometime he helps a little too much. He was like a woman trying on tuxedo`s. He didn`t like the way this one looked, and he did like how his butt looked in those pants. It was hilarious! He actulally picked out the bridemaids dress colour. Champagne!

Are you inviting your minister/pastor/priest to your reception?

Yes we are having the preist to the wedding reception (both of them and their wives). However .. We have known the first minister for 10 years ( my FH and i met at this church) and the second minister is my cousin. So they are both invited anyway.

Question:
Are you going to party HARD at your night before party?

YES I am! We`re having our wedding in VA. We live in CA. So our party is going to be a welcome home/ Jack and Jill party and I can`t wait!

Are you going on a extravagant honeymoon?

Kinda we are planning on going to fort launderdahl stay till sunday night and ride the "booze cruise" its a ferry to the bahammas and stay there for 3 days

Whats the hardest part of the wedding choose colors or find the bridesmaid dresses?

Mine was choosing the dresses......to try and find styles that fit each of the girls.

Is anyone else having an outside wedding?

Mel

I am having a garden wedding at an old bed and breakfast.
Are you making your on invites?

We are having an outside wedding in October in Indiana.

Has anyone painted their own aisle runner?
Carri

Both! Actually my bridesmaids were awesome. I chose a neutral colour, Champagne, and then we found the Alfred Angelo mix and match sets and I chose the skirt and all 3 of them chose different tops that they liked best.

Are you having a seperate bachelor/bachelorette party?

Yes we are, but its not what you think it would be. He doesn`t drink and I rarely do so I thought it would be fun to each do something seperate since we are normally conected at the hip and the trust is definatly there. Me and the girls are going to a club called "Lips" its a drag queen show and that way the people who are not 21 could attend.

Did anyone have a problem choosing there maid of honor?

Yes we are: I like to go to the night clubs and dance with my friends till dawn... He likes to stay in and play cards with his (the only dancing he likes is the formal ballroom stuffs that we do together) But we aren`t going out the night before... We are actually haveing our nights out 4 or 5 days before... That way if anyone drinks.. They shoud be recovered for the rehersal and the actual event.

Has anyone had the urge to jump up and down and screme at someone else around you (ie mother or bridesmaid) that this is YOUR wedding not THEIRS??

LOL,

Yes, My mother. I have to continue to remind her not to just go out and buy what ever she wants, I apprciate it alot, however, we have totally different taste!!!

Have you had trobule deciding if you want a bachlorrete party?

My girls and I have been talking about it and are undecided on what to do since we are all young (20`s) we really havent been to that many weddings and such.....

YES we are having our parties the weekend before the wedding and we are going to met the guys a midnight at a club called Hush.
Anyone have someone in there bridal party but did not -me i had to have the sis in law i wanted both of my friends and my sis had to cut one friend out.

YES,
I am so ready to fire my mom..lol She`s great but I would like to have alittle say so in MY wedding. Some days she drives me nuts.

Have you spend WAY more money than you originally planned?

Jezzabella,
I had a hard time deciding what to do because I didn`t want to go and get totally drunk and do the stupid "normal" stagette stuff. So me and 6 of my girlfriends have rented a cabin in the mountains for a weekend and are going to have a stag/shower there. We can drink at the cabin, or they have good bars there if we want to go out. I`m really looking forward to it.

We are having our reception in the evening in June, but where I live it will stay light until 10:30 pm (we actually can have a 7pm tee time and play all 18 holes!). Is it dumb to have candles lite as centerpieces even though you won`t get the ambiance? Our reception hall over looks a golf course and there is floor to ceiling windows.

No.. It`s not dumb. I have my reception at the golf course as well. There are floor to ceiling windows on two walls of the reception hall upstairs and a wrap around balcony on the same two sides. To decorate the balcony we are using patio torches. It doens`t get dark her until 9:30 as well but i still want then.. Candles should be fine.

Does you have a member of their bridal party that you or your FH are discovering you didn`t really know before or cant stand to be around now?