Bachelor Party.. Your Opinion Needed

Hey S,

I am in the same boat as you!!! And I am scared as ever about the event. The only thing I can think of is Trusting him and praying is all that I can do..... But the thoughts of it wake me up in the middle of the night at times. So I say PRAY :)

I can`t stand the idea of bachelor parties. I think most of them are pretty bad. There are some tame ones, but I think those are few and far between.

I am in the same boat as you, but just not as bad. There will be strippers there, but his best man isn`t wild. It`s the other guests that I am worried about. I`m dealing with this by talking to my fiance, telling him how I feel and repeating that if something happens, I would not forgive him. I`ve also told some of the groomsmen to keep an eye on him, when he drinks sometimes it gets out of hand. But all in all I trust him and that`s all you can do.

I dont agree with them! I LIVE in Vegas and sat down with my FH and told him how I dont feel it is necessary to go out and have a bunch of naked chicks all over him right before he is going to marry me! He promised he wouldnt but it is his friends coming from out of town that worry me! Guys dont see it as a problem I guess!

If you`re fiance doesn`t mind the idea of naked women dancing for him, maybe you should rethink this whole marriage thing.
My fiance brought up the bachelor and bachelorette party saying, that neither of us needed to have one. I agree.

Instead of having seperate parties we are having a Jack n Jill party. I have heard to many stories, so we decided a party together is the best way to go.
Mel

I also hate the idea of The Big Mystery of a bachelor party and the whole naked chicks thing. My fiance` doesn`t actually care to have one but I imagine his friends will try to set it up anyway. We talked about it beforehand, for each of us and decided that if we can help it we will not have one. We talked to anyone who might be arranging such things and informed them of our feelings on it (and since they`re friends they should respect our decisions but who knows) and even threw out ideas of things that did interest us such as: Paintballing or fishing or some sport things for "Male Bonding" and some pampering for the girls such as massages, eating at a fancy diner, getting nails done or whatever, making a day of it. So anyway, what we`ve found to work best, to catch their attention is to mention somethign else fun! Good luck!