Engagment Party

I personally, have never been to an engagement party. I don`t think they are very common in my part of the country. I guess anyone could host the party. It could be a cocktail thing with hor douerves and drinks.

We, too, are also having an engagement party. Haven`t really thought about the etiquette of it, just figured it`s a good way to get the news out to family & friends and to let them know (well in advance) about the date & place of the wedding. We were engaged 12/26/03 and are having the engagement party on 7/03/04 - not getting married until May `05. I`ve been having a backyard 4th of July BBQ for over 15 years, and we`re planning on making the BBQ our party also. So, it`s definitely not formal (bathing suits & shorts), and my mom & I always cook all kinds of food. I don`t think it matters when & where you have - it`s a celebration of you and your fiance`s union - remember "it`s all about you!" ;.) Do whatever, whenever you want!

What is the appropriate etiquette for an Engagment Party?

It can be a party with a surprise announcement of the engagement or a party with a special toast to the engagment. Typically gifts are not given at this time.

How far after the engagment should the party take place?

It can be anytime after the engagement but before any other wedding-related parties.

Where should the party take place?

A casual setting such as the bride`s parent`s home or a private room at a favorite restaurant.

Who should host the party?

Traditionally the engagement party is given by the bride`s parents.

Who should be invited?

Family and friends of the bride and her family. The groom`s parents are also invited along with their closest friends. Everyone invited to this party must be invited to the wedding.

Should it be something formal or to the couples discretion?

The hosts should decide. If the wedding will be a formal evening affair, consider an informal afternoon party for the engagement.

Thanks to all of you who responded, you`ve been very helpful and most informative.