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Maid Of Honor Doesn`t Mean MAID

I need to know how to approach the bride about the disorganization on her wedding day. The wedding party was:
Bride/Groom
Maid of Honor/Matron of Honor/ Best Man
7 Bridesmaid/ 7 Groomsmen
3 Jr Bridesmaid/ 3 Ushers
Flower Girl / Ring Bearer/ Bible Bearer/ Train Bearer
Approx 30 people in the wedding party and 250 guests, what we had is a lot of people without a director, people were left off the guestlist who RSVP`d, I know there were feelings that some people didn`t do enough. For a wedding of this size, shouldn`t someone (not in the wedding party) been hired or assigned to do duties?

Posted by hula dancer; updated 02/17/04

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What!!

Posted by ptabula; updated 02/17/04

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Well it isn`t your fault that people who rsvp`d were not on the list. I mean the guests didn`t send their rspv`s to you!!!! That would be the bride`s fault or her parents. And there`s no way that anyone should expect a bridesmaid to organize a wedding party of 30 people. But why do you want to approach her about this anyway? The wedding is over and there`s nothing that can be done about it now. I would just leave it alone.

Posted by Kerry; updated 02/17/04

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