Unpopuler

Hi. I don`t think you are unpopular if you greet people and they do not greet you back. I think the one`s who greet you back that way are people you really do not want to hang out with anyway. They have no respect. You will meet someone who will greet you a nice way and that`s someone whom you really want to hang out with. Don`t worry about being popular or unpopular. Be yourself. There`s more to life than worrying about being popular or not. Smile.

As beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so too is popularity. If someone insults you with names, tell them that`s how God made you and ask them what`s their excuse. If you have a good sense of humor, you have the battle won. Don`t let the cruel words and behavior of others validate who you are. I too thought I w as unpopular back in my day, but I continued to hold on and I did grow from the duckling to the swan. You just hold on and pray that God will take away the pain. Just remember that one day everyone who has ever said anything bad to you will have to come back to you and beg your pardon. Keep telling yourself that you are beautiful because God didn`t make any junk.

In school i was not so popular.i weighed about 170 at age 14. I`m a girl. I was shy also,very nice,but always had people say bad things. I went down to 130lbs and developed a little attitude with the snobby kids like they weren`t good enough. I`m much older now and still turn up my nose at the people i went to school with who try to talk to me. Most of the people you go to school with who are mean to you end up being nobody`s when they growup. That is the truth. You`ll one day look back at them and realize who is the better person. Hope i helped ,good luck

It`s your life! Take controle!

I was in the same situation as you. "KIDS" can be mean and hurtful. Get involved in school activities and clubs. Give your time to cherity ... I suggest hospitals. Get a part time job, donut shop are great places to met new people.

I was the most unpopuler person in my high school. I have one close friend. And a very "nice" boyfriend. On my 16th Birthday my boyfriend drumped me. The best part he started dating my only friend that day. Nice friend hun? Now what? Take control. I finished school. Got a great job. Met the man of my dreams {getting married in Sept. 05}. You have the power to do anything you want ... You have the power over your life ... And no one can change that!

If you ever need to talk .. Cormier5@nb.sympatico.ca

Hilary, you are a very nasty little b*#$! I am sure you can figure this out. You maybe the "popular"one but come back 5 yrs after your high school reunion and tell us where you are at. And you are so wrong!
My cousin is a big girl and through high school didn` t have a lot of close friends but she went to the same school her entire life so she knew everybody and vice versa. For as big as she is ,she is now one of the most beautiful people I know inside and out She is smart and funny and is going a lot further than the "popular"girls we went to school with. Most of them were knocked up at graduation mainly because guys couldn`t keep their hands off of them, gee, who are therumors about? The ones that start them are usually the ones doing the wrong.
To the girl that posted this, don`t let other people get you down. I am sure you are more beautiful on the inside than anybody else at your school. Looks aren`t everything. What if the most beautiful girl or the most hottest guy in your school was in a car accident tonight and their face was all scared up? Do you think they will have friends afterwards? Probably not. People are so judgmental these days. You will come into your own. Maybe one day you will lose your weight and your face will clear up and nobody will know who you are, please make sure that you remind them. Remind them that you were the fat ugly girl with a really big heart. And don`t ever look down on anybody, you never know what their situation might be.
People can`t help the way they look, but they can help the way they look on the inside. Attitude is everyting.
It does not take money to make a person beautiful on the outside. It takes encouragement and kind words.
Maybe you girls that are so "perfect" could do the Clueless thing. You know, take in a "non-perfect" girl, use her as a charity case and teach her how to be as beautiful as you!
I could go forever on this, it is a major issue but I will stop there.
To the girl that posted this, I am here if you want to chat.