My Brother And Sister Are NOT INVITED

I wouldlove to know what planet ur from its there wedding day and they can invite or omit who they want , you dont know these people but they do so as in my case i wpould rather go on a plane with a granny basher than my partners daughter she that bad so if it ever happens to u invte the one who will fight and i would like to see u saying we are the selfish ones the grow up if it wasnt a big deal to people they wouldnt put it on this site ok miss perfect.

Huh?

It`s your wedding, you do what feels right for you and makes you happy. I am having my sister in my weddnig party to please my mother and i am so concerned she is going to try to ruin it for me, luckly i have very good people as my matron of honor and my other bridesmaids they are on sisterpatrol as to not let her mwss it up for me.

Cheryl and Jill I have a recommendation for you both: GET AN EDUCATION. You two couldn`t put together two words to form a coherent sentence to save your lives. Your posts prove how ignorant you two really are.......

Marcie,
What is your problem if you are not going to give let alone helpful advice but any advice then don`t leave anything. Yes I could sit here and take a cheap stupid shot at you, but I will not lower myself to your ignorance. So grow up a little will you.

BTW, Marcie I`m and English prof. What are you?

MARCI jill is prob a better person than u and as for me im training to be a doctor so ur no better than anyone else and i i said if we didnt need the advice we woulnt be asking for it its u whos the petty minded my god even going on about the spelling i know what it is u need and its not a space on this site? cheryl i could give u a few ideas but u might not like them either

Oh, I doubt there are any English professors or doctors in training in this thread. Also, it`s not only about spelling. For instance, Cheryl you have no idea that periods are necessary for people to understand your thoughts. Your posts are so horrendous and difficult to read because you turn whole paragraphs into one, big, long, run-on sentence.

Nobody is looking for grammar and spelling perfection, but at least some adult spelling (not ur and u etc.) and some basic punctuation would make your thoughts much easier to comprehend.

To Sylvia: No offense intended...but get a backbone. This is YOUR day, not your brother or sister or parents...YOURS. If you`re not upset with your brother and sister then you should really invite them, it could cause MUCH more problems for the future if you don`t. You`re avoiding them because you feel wrong, and I don`t know the whole situation, so I can`t get very detailed, except to say don`t hide from your problems...i suggest you speak to your family and inform them that this is a very important day for you and if they all want to come then they are more than welcome, but make it very clear that they are to control themselves for one day. Tell them if they love you and care about you having a nice wedding then they can put their problems aside for one day and help to make your wedding special. Also, consider this...siblings will usually outlive parents, when your parents go all you`re going to have is your brother and sister...don`t cause unnecessary tension. It`s not always easy to do whats right, but once its done you`ll feel much better. And if for some reason they don`t agree to get along, then they sealed their own fate and you do not have to feel bad about not inviting them. When it comes to it though, only invite those who are supportive of you. All others, don`t deserve to be at your wedding. Never feel guilty for someone else`s actions.
To Jill, Cheryl, Marcie: you know this message board is not ment for you people to fight about stupid shit like spelling errors, but rather to try and give sylvia advice...
To Marcie: if you don`t have anything nice to say don`t say anything at all....and I`m 100% certain that you haven`t been able to go through life without a few spelling errors, so don`t throw stones from a glass house.

Lurker i will spell how i like to iv done it for many years without any bad and vindictive people like you telling me differnt. So if anyone needs a life its u .try staying of the net and getting out more often ist good to have a life .

I`ve never heard the term "a doctor in training." Oh yes, probably because they don`t exist, unless you are from a 3rd world country where they would let a monkey be an MD. If you want to even attempt to trick people into thinking you may be a doctor then use terms such as: "med student" "resident", "residency" etc. You MAY fool someone.

For the person who wanted to know what I did -- I`m a CPA for KPMG.

Cheryl-Go back and read what you posted, could you possibly understand what you are saying from someone elses view???
Sylvia, there is no one in this world more important than family. They would be the first ones on my list to invite. I don`t understand how people can take their family for granted...my mother and sister have passed away and I would give anything for them to see me getting married. Its one of the most important events in your life!!!

Cheryl, you do sound like an ignorant fool. I am a nursing student. I never refer to myself as a nurse in training. I go to classes and am gaining the knowledge required of someone in the medical field. Physicians do the same. They don`t follow someone around and gain train like one would at a factory. I`m willing to bet your only medical experience comes from watching reruns of ER. Also, no physician or medical student would ever degrade themselves by knowingly showing the world how ignorant they are through such poor grammer and infantile spelling errors (If you didn`t understand what I just said, there is a book at the library called a dictionary, look it up). I suggest you stop posting and reinterating to everyone on this site how utterly stupid you really are.