Should I Ask?
Me and my girl friend have been dating for about a month now. We`ve known each other for about seven months. She told me that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her too!! Im only 19 about to turn twenty (same for her) We are both in (the same) college taking classes. Is that too young? Is that too short of a time to know a person, or could it be true love? What should I do?
Posted by Paul; updated 02/08/04
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Of course it could be true love, but if it is it will wait . I think perhaps you should wait. You are both young and still have school to finish. Your together at school, so it`s not like you have to rush into marriage because your apart. Give it awhile and enjoy this time! Good Luck to you both!
Posted by RecentBride; updated 02/08/04
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I agree...... If it`s really true love then it can withstand the wait. Seven months is not a very long time and 19 is young. You should give it at least another year and see where you both stand. Right now just concentrate on finishing your education and enjoying each other!
Posted by Kerry; updated 02/09/04
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I agree and disagree with the other posts, I wouldn`t say that you are too young, but I do think you should wait. My fiancee proposed to me when we were 18 and we will be getting married this Oct. Which is 4 years later. There is nothing wrong with being engaged and knowing you are going to marry that person, just have a long engagement to get finished with school and to grow with one another. Hope this helps!
Posted by Carri; updated 02/09/04
