Wording For Adult Reception Only

Hello,

I am getting married in October 2004 and I am looking for the appropriate wording to put on the reception cards. Everyone that is invited to the wedding isn`t invited to the reception (meaning children), I don`t know how to say the reception is adult only.

Could someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Thank You,
Sabrina
Posted by Sabrina; updated 02/04/04

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We are also having an adult only reception (other than the two children in the wedding). On our reception cards in the invitation, it says Adult Reception at.............. I am hoping this works! What day are you getting married? Ours is 10-08-04.
Posted by Carri; updated 02/05/04

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I too did not invite children to my reception (I didn`t invite them to the wedding either). However, do not assume (as I did) that your guests will understand that when their children`s names are not on the innver envelope that they are not invited. Most people understand the concept of the inner envelope; however, I still had 9 people RSVP a number that included their children and I had 7 more just bring their kids to my reception.

On the reception card have something like this printed (I wish I had done it this way...)
"An Adult Affair"

Also, I personally recommend that you not invite children to your ceremony. Kids tend to be loud and they make noise during the ceremony. They simply can`t sit still, or be quiet, for any lenght of time.

Good luck and I hope this helps.
Posted by Kay; updated 02/05/04

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Ladies,

Thank you for all your input, it is extremely helpful for me to have another opinion from someone who isn`t involved in the wedding planning.

Carrie, my wedding is set for one day after yours` it is October 9th, 2004.

Thank you once again,
Sabrina
Posted by Sabrina; updated 02/05/04

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Some people get offended if their kids are not invited. But the fact is, not every occasion is suitable for children.
Posted by MIssy; updated 02/20/04

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How funny my name is Sabrina and I am getting married oct 15th 2004 !! email me if want we can help each other sabrina7718@yahoo.com
Posted by sabrina; updated 02/20/04

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I am having an adult only wedding and reception. I have personally asked everyone with small kids to not bring them and they understand. My fiance has also done the same. I will print out "Adults Only" on the bottom of the invites to those with kids as a reminder. There will be a few there but they are young teens and we already ok`d it with the parents.

I agree don`t assume. Ours is small enough we can ask ahead of time to save any hurt feelings down the line and the way we asked was that the ceremony it over and hour, not to kids liking and the hall, there will be a lot of elderly (we are older, second marriage) and I prefer that the elderly and some handicapped not have to dodge small kids.
Posted by kitten; updated 02/20/04