Quinceanera Reception

Well, my quinceanera is in a little less than a month and i just wanted to know if anyone knew the order of things at the reception. Like changing the shoes, baile sorpresa, etc. Cuz i know the dj is supposed to announce the stuff, i just dunno what order the traditions go in.

Also......i`m doin "baby boy" for my baile sorpresa and in the video some of the moves are a little "suggestive" we`ve copied some of the moves. Now, i don`t think my dance is too "sexy" but i don`t know if some one else will. What should i do about that? i want my dance but i don`t want it too be boring or like a burlesque show.plz helppppppppppppppppppppppp!