Wording Invites

I would like to invite a lot of my coworkers to my wedding but I do not know their spouses name. Should I send around a generic email to the invitees requesting their spouses name or just address the invite - Mrs Joan Smith and Spouse? Or should I just address the invite to Joan and then on the reception card put Joan and Spouse?
Thank you!
Posted by Jennifer; updated 01/28/04

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I think it should read To Mrs. Smith and Spouse or maybe Mrs. Smith plus one.
Posted by sabrina; updated 01/28/04

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Ask each of them their spouse`s names and then address each envelope in the appropriate form of "Mr. And Mrs. John Doe".
Posted by Linda; updated 01/28/04

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That sounds better Mr and Mrs Doe
Posted by sabrina; updated 01/28/04