Help Me!

Ok, My theme for my Quince is Aladin. Im comin out of a lamp ist really cool!....OK! and i dunno what the colors should be. Would a gold color for my Dama`s dresses be tacky? should i have my dress traditonally white or a saphire blue or royal blu...or is that to much? Im soo CLueless! Help! and What are traditonal things that the court does other than the choreograph? i heard sumthing bout a candle thing or roses. SEE i have No idea what to do! Help! ASAP PLEASE!