SLUMBER PARTY Bachelorette Party

Hello I am a bride, and i want to offer something that I would absolutely love to have happen for my bachelorette. I am not one who enjoys being the centre of attention, and I drink sociabaly, but I have been to enough bachelorette parties, to know that soemtimes the gals like to get the bride to be, totally drunk, and act like idiots....This is something that i am scared of.......what I would love to do, is have a bunch of my friends get together and have a slumber party. We could go back in time, and sleep with our sleeping bags, and do each others hair, and play games etc. And just have fun all nite......without the over drinking and it would be a nite to remember. Any insight into this?