Bridal Party Problems!

Well, it`s hard, but there is no way around this without uncomfortable feelings and possibly even conflict. So you have to decide if it`s worth the unpleasantness you WILL encounter. Part of being grown-up is making these hard decisions and sticking to our guns. Unfortunately, it doesn`t mean your ex-friend wil be a grown up when you tell her. Whatever you do, stick to your guns, do not defend yourself, just state facts and leave it at that. Do not become childlike and argue with her. And be prepared to live with the consequences.... Forever. Make sure this is a decision you will back up years after the wedding. Because there will be little chance of fixing this afterwards should you decide you were wrong.