Advice On Seating!

The proper thing to do for divorced parents is:

Mother sits in the first pew
Father sits in the third pew

Although since it sounds like your fiance`s dad wasn`t exactly Father of the Year for most of his life I don`t find it to be unreasonable if you decide to put him farther back in the church.

Honors that parents should receive at a wedding should also be earned. It certainly doesn`t sound like your fiance`s dad has `earned` much at all.

Good luck at your upcoming wedding! Best wishes.

Thanks Meredith.. Your right. He wasnt around and had been a lousy dad most of his life but I guess its never too late to turn things around huh?! There isnt alot of family left on either side hubby to be or mine no grandparents on either side. I just didnt know the etiquette on where to sit him.