I DON`T WANT A BACHELOR PARTY
MY STORY IS THIS, I`M GETTING MARRIED ON NEW YEAR`S EVE AND MY BACHELORETTE PARTY CONSISTED OF MY MOM, HIS MOM, AND BRIDESMAIDS AND FRIENDS, WE DID THE USUAL GO OUT FOR SOME DRINKS AND DANCING, NOTHING MAJOR. THEN IT WAS HIS TURN, I DIDN`T FEEL IN OUR RELATIONSHIP, THAT GOING TO A STRIP CLUB WAS REALLY NECESSARY, HOWEVER HIS FRIENDS THOUGHT OTHERWISE, MY FRIENDS RESPECTRED MY WISHES. MY FIANCE DECIDED NOT TO GO TO THE STRIP CLUB, BUT HE ALSO DID NOT COME HOME ALL NIGHT, NOT UNTIL 10:00 THE NEXT MORNING. (HE HAD BEEN GONE SINCE 2:00P.M. THE DAY BEFORE) WITHOUT A PHONE CALL FROM HIM OR ANY OF HIS FRIENDS. I WAS UP THE ENTIRE NIGHT WORRIED AND SICK, AND I`M SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND. I WANTED SOME OTHER WOMEN`S INPUT ON THIS MATTER WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE????
Posted by AMY; updated 12/03/03
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I would of been furious! Bachelor / Bachelorette parties end up with trouble sometimes. Depending on the friends doing this. I would said now you explain why you were gone with no call or anything for almost 24 hours. I would of started the wedding on the wrong foot for sure. Now if you had done that, what would he of said? Ask him how he`d like you to go out all night and not come home or call,he might say it wouldn`t bother him But I bet it would. I would of gotten in my car and went looking for him and brought him home. I may have even called the police just to embarrass him a bit but I would of sounded really concerened to the police. Good luck on your marriage and if you can get past this then you have more understanding and patience than me.
Posted by Linette; updated 01/06/04
