Secret Marriage

Very much appreciate your response. Some of the people responding here are very ignorant and until they are faced with some of the decisions some of us have been faced with they cannot honestly say what they would do. I have not deceived anyone and I definetly am NOT a "chicken". I am married to the person I love, so some people do not know that and will not until we are married in a church. This was our decision and I do not feel any of you have the right to pass judgement on anyone until you yourself become perfect and that will Not happen. Things happen out of peoples control and what you think does not matter. It is what we feel in our hearts and thank goodness I do not have friends or family that I worry are as quick to pass judgement as the people here because I know regardless, they will NOT be concerned that I chose not to tell them I was married.