I Need Help Renewing My Vows To My Solider

I need help to renew my vows when my solider comes home from iraq. My husbnad and i got married in feb 2003 and in march he was sent to fight for his country. How ever we did not have a big wedding and this being his first marriage we wanted it to be special, we went to the jp and got married and now3 his family is hurt. I need help on writing the vows so when he comes home it will be special for him any advice please let me know