Need Help With The Mother In Law To Be!!!!!!!
Im having some issues with my mother in law to be.
Me and my fiance are getting married at a camp where we met years ago. We have rented the whole facility and are having our guest spend the nights. She threw a HUGE fit when she heard this, she thinks its inappropriate that where not getting married in a church (even though our pastor will be the one marrying us).
She tells me my dress is ugly, my bridesmaids outfits are terrible and that im no where near good enough for her son.
But worst of all she has tried to call and cancel the campground, and almost did, but they called me to confirm. She changed thigs with the cake decorater and florist and told them she was paying so they had to do it her way. (which isnt true AT ALL)
Kyle (my fiance), simply told her that she was no longer welcome at our wedding, and now her and her whole family are blaming me for ruining his and his mothers relationship!
As you can probably tell, im completely freaking out, this is supposed to be the happiest day of our lives, and now its all going bad. What to do????
Posted by Erika; updated 11/18/03
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Hi
I am very sorry to hear that your fiance`s mother is being a quote on quote "bitch" but she has to realize that this is not her wedding and needs to step back, she is acting as though she is still breast feeding her son. All i can say is that, this is your dream day for both you and your fiance, he needs to tell his mother that he is happy with you and that she needs to come to terms with it. Try taking her out somewhere and have an intimate conversation with her to find out exactly what is her problem towards you. I hope this helps, if you need to talk to someone you can email me at luciapre@aol.com
Posted by Lucia; updated 11/18/03
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I say...bravo to your new husband to be...that is a sign of the future and she is about to lose him and that is what she deserves. She`ll come around...don`t give in and have a wonder ful wedding. Remember family is not perfect and you should just get used to how it is...and when you have your own child (son)...just do me a favor...remember and do better.
Good luck.
Posted by Patti Duke; updated 11/18/03
