10 Ways To Create A More Romantic Bedroom

10 Ways to Create a More Romantic Bedroom. This part of the house should be a place where love and romance are cultivated, encouraged, and celebrated.by Sabrina BeasleyMarriage is the most intimate relationship two people on earth can have. As Genesis 2:25 describes Adam and Eve, husbands and wives are "naked and not ashamed." It`s a powerful union, having the ability to bind hearts together like spiritual glue, produce offspring, and even heal the body and soul. In their book Intended for Pleasure, Ed and Gaye Wheat write, "… Today therapists and researchers are discovering that genuine sexual intimacy has a remarkable power to heal, renew, refresh, restore, and sustain the marriage relationship."Yet the one place where mari! tal fidelity is most intimate—the bedroom—is often treated as a storeroom for clutter. Instead, the bedroom should be a place where love and romance are cultivated, encouraged, and celebrated. This is the one room where you and your spouse can enjoy the relationship that God created for you to share, so there should be special attention paid to it.Women are especially affected by the state of the bedroom because we feel connected to the home in a personal way. We often see the home as an extension of our personalities and style. The colors, wall decorations, furniture, pictures, etc., are all selected based on what we want others to know about us.Ask yourself this question: If a friend were to walk into your bedroom today, what would she say about your marriage based on what she found? If the answer to that question leaves you feeling inadequate, these 10 ideas will help you turn your bedroom into an incubator for romance.* Put away clutter. Everyone! has them—stacks of bills, coupons, random newsletters that haven`t be en read … the list goes on. And since you don`t want to forget about them (or maybe you just don`t know where to store them), the default system is to make a stack on the dresser or chest of drawers in your bedroom. Perhaps the dirty laundry has found a gathering place on the floor next to the bed. And all those pictures, candlesticks, decorations, and children`s painting that you are planning to find a place for have found their way to the tops of your bedroom furniture.If you want a romantic bedroom, all of this clutter must go somewhere else. To help de-clutter, put large items in a box and store them in the hall closet or under the bed, and stack loose papers in tall baskets, preferably with lids, that can double as hiding spaces and decor.By simply straightening up the room, you`ll be less burdened without the constant reminders of looming projects and feel more relaxed.* Don`t use your bedroom as storage. This is similar to the previous suggesti! on, except this is a more permanent problem. As much as possible, remove stored items from your room. This requires an investment of time. Take a day to sort through the stored items and decide which need to be put away in their proper place, given away or sold, or moved someplace else for continued storage. Then take advantage of hidden spaces in your house to store the leftover items. Use places such as:* Space under beds. Invest in storage boxes that are made to fit under the bed and roll for easy access. If you are storing toys and children`s clothing, utilize this space in children`s rooms, as well.* Trunks. Depending on the size, trunks can double as tables and/or decorations in a bedroom or living area. It gives both an aesthetic value and a practical one.* Baskets. This is another valuable de-cluttering item. You can fill baskets with storage and put them on a bookshelf or under tables as decorations.* Choose colors that soothe. The color scheme ! you choose for your bedroom is as important as the decorations. The re ason is that colors have a way of connecting with emotions. Sharon Hanby-Robie and Deb Strubel authors of Beautiful Places, Spiritual Spaces write, "Decorate your home with the colors you and your family love. It doesn`t matter what the latest trends are or what the fashion gurus think. What does matter is that you love your home and that your choices make sense for you and your family."If you don`t know what colors and styles you like, start looking through home magazines and catalogs. Tear out the pages that have colors and designs you are drawn to. Soon, you will begin to see a pattern develop, and you can use these ideas to decorate your own bedroom.* Use many of your best decorations. Women often use their best décor for the living room, den, or kitchen, where guests are most likely to frequent, and send the leftovers to the bedroom. But the heart of your home lies within the relationship between husband and wife, so the bedroom should be a priority. Not! only that, but your spouse will appreciate the extra attention to enhance your romance.Go through your house and find several of your best decorations that fit with the color scheme in your bedroom. Then find a place for them, being careful not to create more clutter, but instead flatter the room. Put as much effort into this room as you would a room with higher traffic.* Use decorations to remind you of special memories. In our bedroom you will find framed dried flowers from one of our first dates, wedding and honeymoon pictures, our marriage covenant matted and framed, and several books that have ministered to our marriage in a powerful way.Looking at these tokens from the past, I am continually reminded of how our love blossoms and grows over the years. They warm my heart in good times, and convict my heart in times of conflict. When I roll over to my side of the bed in a fit of annoyed anger, I can`t help but reminisce these precious memories as! my eyes scan the room. They remind me that I have a good marriage and challenge me to check my motives.* Invest in candles and burn them often. Some couples use candles mainly to decorate tables and shelves. But they miss out on the soft lighting and subtle fragrances that candles can offer a room. Nothing gives a romantic ambiance like candlelight, so find several fragrances and colors that you and your husband love, a