Asking Out Of Town Bridesmaids?

Call

Try calling & Asking them then send them a Card thanking them & letting them know that you appreciate
Their Sharing your Special day.

I`d give them a call and ask.

For my wedding, I asked a good friend who lives about two hours away to be my matron of honor. We don`t see each other much; most of our communications over the last couple of years have been via email.

So when I asked her to be my matron of honor, I spent some time creating a letter, telling her how much her friendship meant to me, how well we`ve kept up our friendship even though we hardly see each other, and ended it by asking if she would be standing there with me on that most important day. I printed it on some very attractive paper and mailed it to her.

She was thrilled with it (my email from her the next day started something like WHEEEEEEE! YES! YEEEESSSS!!!), and she kept it.

KD