Need Help
Hi I am getting next August and I am already having second thoughts about the man I`ve been with for the past three years. I am scared that when we get married that he will turn away from and start looking for somebody else. I know he loves me but since he asked To Marry Him and I said yes he has been acting different. Every time I ask something to do with the wedding he says he will talk to me about it later but later never seems to come with him.
Is this a typical guy thing or is he having second thoughts about our wedding.
Posted by Kaylor; updated 11/03/03
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I KNOW WHAT YOU AR GOING THROUGH.IM GOING THRUGH THE SOME THING. I DNT THINK HE MAEN ANY THING BY IT SOME MEN ARE JUST LIKE THAT.
IM AN TALKS ABOUT GETTING MARRIED ALL THE TIME TO OTHER PEOPLE BUT WHEN IT COMES TO ME HE DOESN`T SEAM TO WONT TO HELP PLAN THIS WEDDING. KEEP YOUR FAITH IN HIM IF YOU KNOW THAT HE LOVES YOU THAT IS AL YOU NEED.
EVRYTHING ELSE WIL WORK OUT. ALL IT MEANS IS THAT YOU HA ALOT OF WORK TO DO BY YOURSELF.
GOOD LUCK AND KNW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Posted by PENNY; updated 11/29/03
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Don`t marry the guy he is having second thoughts himself trust me i know. Been there done that and he called off the wedding it is best to cut your feelings now rather then in hte marrige. You will get hurt a lot more.
Posted by jeweley; updated 07/08/04