Reception Dances With Chldren

I have 4 adult children and will be getting married out of the country and coming back for a reception. Is it customary for me to dance with my two sons since my father is passed away? Then would my new husband to be dance with my girls? I was trying to include them in the wedding, not that it is just me getting married but that they are gaining a stepfather. Any suggestions?
Posted by Vicki; updated 02/17/11