Ring Bearer/ FlowerGirl

I am getting married this Sept {9-10-11} and I only have one niece and one nephew. So of course, Id love to have them both be part of the wedding. My nephew is 10 and my niece is only going be 1year/9mo. By our wedding. They will be our ring bearer/and flowergirl. Some say 10 is too old and some say my niece is too young but there are no rules as to age- {I think it`s whatever makes you feel happy and comfortable} So I have decided to have my nephew walk down hand-in-hand with my niece. I think it will be very cute and it will mean a lot to me. Even if my niece doesn`t want to cooperate { my parents and my nieces parents will be nearby to guide her down} . Don`t pay too much attention to age- it`s okay to do your thing and not always ``by the book`` :`}