Monetary Gifts

Let me just say this -- there seems to be two distinct groups on the site.

1. Classy = does not mention gifts or money in invitations or otherwise, no dollar dance, and don`t charge their guests for liquor, etc.

2. Trasy = puts registry information into invites, asks for cash, has "Money Showers" for themselves, has the dollar dance, and has a cash bar.

I am an etiquette expert. I`ve written books on the subject, I have a newspaper column, and am considered an expert in the field. So don`t even bother to argue with me because this isn`t an issue of opinion or `times are changing` etc, this is pure etiquette. I applaud the women on this site who have manners. The rest of you seem to be a bit hopeless.