I Need Help Fast

Hey sup , ok im having a birthday party in the beginning of november ,im turning 14 and i have no idea where to have my-b-day party at what so ever, im inviting both guys and girls so it cant be only girl stuff i also need to know what kinda of crazy stuff to do it doesnt matter if it involes kissing or stuff my moms pretty laid back! but i need advise! and SOON please help!! **Madison**