Wedding Invitation Wording

I am planning my wedding for March 20th. Everything is going good except I have no idea how to word my guest names on the invitaions. I have a lot of friends that have girlfriends or boyfriends that I have meet once or twice breifly. I am windering if i include their name on the invite along with my friend or do I refer to them as guest. Example John Doe & Jane Doe or John Doe & Guest. I don`t want them to feel left out or if my friend wants to take someone else other then their other half. Please Help
Posted by Jerri; updated 10/16/03

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Put and guest unless they live together or of course married then put Mr. & Mrs
Posted by Nicia; updated 10/16/03

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I found on an etiquitte site that if they are in a committed relationship (engaged, living together, or have been together for a long time) on the inside envelope you should write both their names, if not just write Ms. Jane Smith and Guest
Posted by Bethy; updated 10/16/03

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One suggestion, learn how to spell before you address your invitations. Your spelling is pathetic.
Posted by Lola; updated 10/28/03

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First of all i know how to spell. You can stick your thumb where the sun doesn`t shine. I do not need you negative comments. There are other things on my mind that i could say but i won`t. If the only thing you have to do in YOUR PATHETIC life is to do things that this then it`s a know wonder all you know how to do is use spell check and put other people down then feel really sorry for you.
Posted by Jerri; updated 11/03/03

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You not only can`t spell, but your grammar is awful. You are stupid - that is the bottom line. You are stupid and probably ugly too.
Posted by Lola; updated 11/03/03

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That’s fine I guess your entitled to your opinion. Your right I’m probably all those things you said, or not. Not only have I composed an e-mail about your horribly rude response but I have also followed up will a phone call. You abused the rules and now I will see to it that you get kicked out of this site. Your comments are not only rude but also unnecessary. My question was not about grammar so it was not necessary for you to put in your opinion. You really outta watch what you say to people you don’t know. Don’t take that as a threat in any way but, for all you know I could be someone important. But that doesn’t matter to you because your probably a hostile bride that just got dumped and is looking for a way to blow off some steam so in some way it can make you feel better. You will probably come back with a rebuttal and that’s fine. If you even get a chance to do it before you get kicked off this website. If you do get a chance to reply how about you write a little more than bad words and and a couple of sentences. Bye bye for now!!
Posted by Jerri; updated 11/04/03

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Gee, however will I sleep tonight? I`m so darn scared I may just cry for weeks and weeks. Boo hoo.
Posted by Lola; updated 11/04/03

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Does anyone have a sight I could look at for wording a wedding invitaion where I could include my daughter in the invitation?
Posted by erica; updated 02/10/04

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Jerri, if you are inviting someone with a significant other I would recommend you call them and ask the name of them their name. It`s nice to acknowledge on the inner envelope that you know the first name of their sig other.

If you have single friends you should include an "and guest" since you don`t know who they will want to bring.

Good luck!
Posted by Kay; updated 02/15/04

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I think it should be Jane Doe and Special Guest or just Guest, considering you`ve only met them once or twice.
Posted by belen; updated 03/25/04

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Lola,

I can`t believe you would stoop so low! You have a lot of nerve and an obviously pathetic life. Why don`t you take your prozac and have a bottle of wine to wash it down with. We are here to exchange information about one of the most wonderful days of our lives. Who cares if we spell words incorrectly??? You are truly P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C and a royal B-I-T-- (I think you know the rest)!!
Posted by DC B-to-B; updated 04/16/04

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Please do not respond to this post anymore. My wedding is over and has been over for a month now. Thank you everyone for your advice.

THIS POST IS CLOSED!!!!
Posted by Jerri; updated 04/19/04