Getting Married Young
Ok so im 13 and my boyfriend is about to be 14 and he asked me to marry him ofcourse i said yes i mean i really love him and he loves me to so we were talking the other day and we think we should get married when were 15 people do that all the time and i think we can make it work we are really in love but do u think that we are way to young? or maybe we should wait but we are afraid that if we wait something might happen and we wont be togethr what if one of us moves on im just not sure
-Marea
Posted by marea; updated 07/19/10
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YES! you are TOO young...AND if you are questioning anything that means you`re not 100% sure AND if you`re not 100% sure then you should NOT marry him... The best thing to do is live your life now, finish school, go to college .. At 13 you are NOT the person you are going to be when you`re in your 20s or 30s (you are going to meet so many more people in your life that will change you). So who you want to marry now , may not be the person you are going to want to mary when you`re older (because HE will change too, he`s only 14).. TRUST ME! WOW! what do your parents say about this?.. You NEED TO SLOW DOWN AND ACT LIKE A 13 YEAR OLD... AND DON"T try to say that you are different froma "normal" 13 year OLD... BECAUSE ALL 13 year OLDS say that.. Which makes them (you) all the same!
Also, you asked "what is one of us moves".... That is the least of your worries, there`s a lot of other things that may happen.. See , if you were an adult, you wouldn`t have to worry if he moved, becasue you`d be old enough to decide where the two of you should move.. I am telling you right now, do not ruin your life, enjoy being in love with your boyfriend now! getting married at 13 will ruin it..
Posted by amazed; updated 07/19/10
