Please Help Us Get Merried

Hi me and my fiance need to get married in the church and we really want a "real" wedding and the hole 9 yards but we have no money to even get are car fixed let alone for a wedding i just had a baby on June 25 2010 and we all so have a 1 year old i have done every thing i can think of to find a way to pay for our wedding i cry all the time because i don`t know what to do pease help if you can thanks