14th Birthday

Im turning 14 in November and i live in Los angeles didnt have a 13 birthday party but i`ve had one every single other age wanna have a dj party and invite girls and guys but i dont want them to be grinding and stuff in front of my mom that would be awkward! any ideas for other 14th birthday party ideas or any advice on the Dj party? PLEASE helpmMEEEEE!
Posted by Girlie; updated 06/30/10