Bridal Shower Invitation Etiquette
I am in a bind about the invites I am making for a shower I`m giving. About half the people coming are from England, where they do not do showers..Since they don`t know what to expect, I wanted to put on the invites... " join us as we shower Carla with gifts and fellowship"...also at the end is mentioned where she is registered. Does anyone think that is tacky wording??? I really can`t find any set etiquette for this.
Posted by jessica; updated 10/10/03
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Jessica, since the invite to the shower is not being sent from either the b&g it is ok to mention where they are registered -- especially since people in England do not understand the American concept of registries. I also feel your wording is tasteful.
I am adament that a WEDDING invite should never mention gifts, registries, or money --- but in all honesty I don`t think it is inproper to include registry info in bridal shower invite.
I checked my etiquette book but couldn`t find anything on this. If someone else knows something more about this and knows it is improper - PLEASE correct me.
Good luck planning the shower.
Posted by Kay; updated 10/11/03
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I really am no expert either but am in the same mindset of everyoone on here that says requesting cash or gifts for the wedding is totally out of line. And please don`t even get me started on the dollar dance argument.... Unless it really is a family tradition to do, it has no place in todays reception.
But since the tradtion of the "Shower" began as a way to shower the Bride with gifts I feel registry information can always be inserted in the invites and if you need to mention it for those who may not know....I think your wording is just fine! Go for it!
Posted by Jemmy; updated 10/11/03
