I Need As MUCH Help For My 13th Birthday!

Okay. My birthday`s in 4 days! and i still havent decided on where its going 2 b @!!!!! im only going 2 have my bffs which would only be ( around 4 or 5 people) and me and my mom have been going on and off about it...... We where thinking about.... Dave and busters... Or 6 flags: which my mom doesnt LOVE the 5 flags idea....now we cant have any bonfire or sleepover or etc... Kinda... I would REALLY need ur HELP!!! YIKES
Thnxz :)