It Doesn`t Hurt To Ask.....

Hello, My name is Danielle. I am 26yrs old, I have a beautiful 6yr old daughter and a wonderful fiance named Mike. My fiance works entirelly to much and I work parttime to be home w/ my daughter the rest of the time. We have been engaged for 2yrs now and just set a date. Oct 1, 2010. We have put off a wedding because money is always an issue, it`s always something. My mother is ill and can not work or help pay for much. His parents are old fashioned and don`t believe they should have to cover anything other then the rehersal dinner and thats ok, I love them anyways! So I have no plea. I would just like to ask for any help possible. I plan on trying to make my own flowers and center peices w/ some help from friends and family. Our reception is going to be at a VFW Hall and already partially paid for. I`m not really sure about alot of other things, I just put it together day by day! What I really want, since I have chosen to be so tight with the hall, making things on my own etc...I want to be married in The Conservatory in St.Charles, MO. I have looked into parks and that makes me nervous because it`s an early fall wedding in STL. I have looked into almost anything and it will cost me around the same amount as The Conservatory. I plan on being married one time and one time only. Mike and I have been together 4 yrs now, he is a wonderful man and a wonderful stepfather. He says he will take on another job to pay for this place, this isn`t even possible. He works from 6/7am to 4/9pm. The guy would do anything to make me happy and even though I appreciate that I feel like he does more then enough already. I don`t have a budget because it is up in the air with what him and I can afford, we set money aside out of each paycheck and I`m afraid it will not be enough. If you would like to help make our special day go as smooth as possible I would be so grateful. I have a lil something called pride so this was really hard for me to even do but I know it can`t hurt! Thank you and hope to hear from you soon.