Guests Pay

I think that it is ok for your guests to pay for themselves, iam doing it for my wedding and iam asking them to pay $80 a head. The way i see it is if your guests really want to celebrate that special day with you then they will suck it up and pay for it. We are not asking for gift, just that everyone pays for temselves... After all we are living in 2010 now.. Weddings are the way they used to be!