Wedding Gift

We are invited to a wedding(3 marriage groom 2 marriage bride) the wedding is at there house they have invited 60 guests. It is B.Y.O.B.and i have been asked to bring a few things salad etc. And i have been asked to help organize the food table. I don`t feel i should have to give a gift. But i know they are expecting presents.WHAT IS PROPER ETIQUETTE.
Posted by gina; updated 09/25/03

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Bring a gift that you got on sale somewhere..around 10-15 dollars...I think she might be upset with you if you didn`t give her anything..even though by the 3rd time she shouldn`t expect it...
Posted by Aubri; updated 09/26/03

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Proper etiquette is to give a gift of a denomination of your choice. Although you are helping to provide items for the reception one is still to give a gift.
Posted by Kay; updated 09/27/03

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They have five weddings between them already and their own guests are providing the food and alcohol for thier party? I`d say send a nice card and wish the couple good luck. Sounds like they might need it.
Posted by Linda; updated 09/27/03