I REALLY NEED HELP Plz Help Me.
Hey, i really need help on what to do. I really seem to like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. She is my friend, but i really like him. I don`t know what to do. There are some people who do like me, but i dont want to go out with any of them except for this one guy. Please reply back to me and let me know what you think i should do. What are some ways that i can get some guys to pay attention to me.
Thanks,
Brit
Posted by brit; updated 09/20/03
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Oh Brit - PLEASE, PLEASE, don`t ruin a friendship for a boy - it`s not worth it and the relationship will never last as long as a good friendship will. Boys will like you and pay attention to you if you just be yourself and enjoy whatever you are doing. Boys don`t like complainers or sneaky girls who would try to steal their friends boyfriend. If you are having a good time and enjoying yourself other will want to be around you and join you in what you are doing - boys too. Good luck!
Posted by Sam; updated 09/22/03
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Ok on wat i said b4, i didnt mean it like i was going to steal my friend`s boyfriend, i was just saying that i really like him. Wat i really meant to say is that if they do break up and do not like each other anymore, then should i make the move, flirt with him and stuff? sorry i didnt make myself clear on that lol thanx ~brit~
Posted by brit; updated 09/22/03
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Hey sure when he`s fair game, he`s fair game - but if you really want to keep your friend, I would ask her first - and even if she says she`s OK with it - she may not be and you still may lose her as a friend. By the way - if they EVER slept together, I so NO WAY, don`t bother with him - because then your friend will HATE you! Good luck Brit!
Posted by Cat; updated 09/29/03
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If you have any rude comments, then don`t comment to them...besides it is my message, so write what u want to write on your on message board. By the way this message goes out to "dontmesswithme**
Posted by brit**; updated 10/04/03
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I think....u should just be honest with ur friend and her boyfriend. U cant hide ur feelings forever. Eventhough it`ll be tough....but tell ur friend first...sit her down and say, u know...i just want to be honest with u...so i thought u should know i like ur boyfriend. And if she`s a true friend...she wont get mad. Then the rest will be up to u if u decide to tell him or not. That`s ur decision. But i don`t think u should act on ur feelings...i know what it`s like to have ur friend hate u because of "doing stuff" with her boyfriend. But u just have to kinda play it by ear. Things will probably turn out good. Email me if u have ne more questions or if u have aim...IM me @ tinkrbellx0x0. Hope i helped ya out!! good luck!!
Lacey*~*
Posted by *~*LaCeY*~*; updated 10/12/03
