Please Can Some One Help With The Cost Of My Wedding?

Hello my name is stacey rimmer im 24 and am looking to get married on the 1st may 2010 only 1 prob,,,,, well to start off i have been saving money for my wedding since i was 15 and always dreamed of my big day and managed to raise £3.000 pounds i no its not a lot but i was enough for what i wanted, i had started to plan little bits and payed for my dress then BANG i got a letter from the bank saying that because 1 of my other accounts had gone 12p over drawn they where charging my 35,00 not to bad e? well thats what i though untill the day after when another letter that said i didnt pay in time so anouther 35,00 so off to bank to put money in..... Wot 120 over drawn :( i dont have that money unless i uses a little of my wedding money ,,, so ok i did and then it all stopped or so i thought... A few months later they sent me another letter saying they where taking me to court for 1.600 in bank charges that cant be right can it but when i spoke to a soliciter he said that there going through court with banks at min with bank charges and said that i should pay them if poss because it could get alot worse with debt collecters coming and taking my stuff :(, so i had to give that money away so now im left with almost nothing and feel like my dream has been ripped away from me im just wondering if anyone would be able to help me out with donations or sponsership or even bits of stuff left over from there weddings i really need help as now i have two kids and the wedding is so close im not going to be able to have even the smallest wedding and its really getting me down thankyou stacey