Ask Her To Step Down
I went through the same thing when I got married 4 years ago. My MOH never even came to the dress fittings. I picked out my own dress, and I even bought hers! She was the last one to arrive at my shower (hosted by someone else),and the first one to leave! It goes on and on and on....
I never asked her to step down because it was too awkward. But to this day, I wish I had asked her to step down. She is in all the pictures, and it`s a sour memory for me. So many other people were there for me, when she wasn`t.
My point is, if you want to ask her to step down, then you should. Don`t do what I did and chicken out.
Posted by Anissa; updated 09/11/03