I Need Your Help

We are to be married in October of 2009. I have recently got laid off and my income went from good to almost nothing and my groom is trying to support our household and a buisness. So needless to say that we dont really have alot of money. The only thing that I am missing is what to do about a wedding cake and a photographer and what to do about the reception at the church. Any suggestions or help would be greatly appreciated. I`m just beginning to wonder if we can get it done in time.